Almost daily, I get one or more requests from people, mainly men, who would either like to come out and meet me or fuck me, or who want to shoot a video with me. While I am open to everyone, I am really uncomfortable with anyone traveling a long distance just for me. I am really not worth the time or the travel expense. I don’t mind meeting people who are going to be in the area for other reasons, like business or visiting others. And if our schedules match up, we may be able to meet for a drink.
Unless it is for a mutually agreed upon video shoot, I do not ever guarantee sex to anyone. Again, other than for a video, I need to meet people publicly first to see how we hit it off. My old adage of “If I like you, I will fuck you”, holds true. But for that to happen, I have to get to know you, and you can never learn anything about someone strictly on-line, it has to be in person.
Almost all my current friends; men, women, and couples, are people who first came out to meet me over a drink, and some have become very close and personal friends. Quite a number of them have become fun sex partners and we call on one another whenever we need a little fun. That is something that is almost impossible to have over a long distance.
I also live out in the country now, far from any hotels, and quite the distance from any airport. There is no bus service in the area, so people have to be self sufficient when it comes to mobility. I’m also a pretty bad host, and when I do have someone over, it’s usually just for the sex and then they leave. So I really don’t socialize much other than when I do head to the Pub.
So If you live in Toronto, in New York, or even as far as Los Angeles, I am not worth it. I would only be able to spend very limited time with you, and that is assuming we actually get down to sex! Most of the time nothing happens when I first meet someone, and the sex comes afterwards. Great for people near the area, really bad for anyone spending time and money to get to me.
Too many woman won’t come near me because my dick doesn’t work. There are other things i am above average in.
Thank you.
Tom