I was stood up yet again! Every guy who was supposed to shoot with me these past two weeks has either cancelled on me or just hasn’t shown up! (or didn’t see my confirmation e-mails) The guy I had set up for earlier this afternoon even wrote me about how he couldn’t believe that people would stand me up and even called them ignorant. He said that it happened in his line of work too and that he would never just not show up! Well guess what?? He didn’t show up!
We have been e-mailing back and forth for the last month. A week ago he was telling me how excited he was and how he was also a bit nervous. I wrote him twice over the last couple of days to confirm, and never got a response. I hate that!
This is how I work all this. A guy will write me about getting together for one of my shoots. I’ll the correspond with him and work out a date and time that works for him as well as me. We’ll also discuss what he wants to do and try. It could be just a blow-job, or an anything-goes thing! Once everything is fully worked out, I let him know that I will be e-mailing him a full day in advance to confirm and that I need him to respond. Most of the guys have been great with all this.
The day of the shoot, I get the bed ready and then have a nice long shower so that I am fully clean for him. I fully shave to make sure my pussy is nice and smooth. I will also douche, and if we are going to have anal sex, have a enema to make sure I am clean everywhere. At the same time, my husband is setting up the lighting and the cameras, and getting everything else ready. This does take time out of our day, and does really waste our time when the guy doesn’t show!
Okay, my rant is now over 😉
I am new to your blog – luv it by the way!! I am also a member of facialforum.net, where I was introduced to your work – LOL. I wish I lived closer to you. I live in New Jersey. I would not pass on an opportunity to be with you.
Keep doin’ what you do, I look forward to your updates.
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This is very unfortunate and your frustration is clear and justified…I think you have to take into account the fact that it may be the FIRST time ever to have sex in front of the camera for most of these guys (really most people dont make sex videos at all, let alone ones shot by a third person) so this will raise your flake level a lot unfortunately. I’m not making excuses for them, just trying to enlighten…I definitely think these guys need to have a serious conversation with THEMSELVES before they even write to you…I just don’t want you to let this cancellation rate turn you angry Carol or think that others are like this at all times…I hope they aren’t at least and I share all your frustrations about flakes!
From now on, all no-shows get their info posted on the web site..)
That ought to take care of them…)